Ziyi isondlo ithebhule kuba, unga fumana apha
Nje emva wokuqhawula umtshato, neeyantlukwano kwi-isondlo qalaNangona kunjalo, kwimeko ka-non-watshata couples, kukho rhoqo imbambano njengoko ukuba ngumsebenzi yesondlo, ingakumbi i-isondlo umntwana. Ngoku düsseldorf itheyibhile, nto leyo intended njengesikhokelo ukuba uvavanyo isondlo kuba Umntwana ukuba waba yokugqibela kwi. Kunye ngokutsha silungelelaniswa izixa-mali kuba Ubuncinane isondlo, entsha düsseldorf ithebhule ukuba.
Ingakumbi umba umntwana isondlo sele kwi-iinkundla
sele kuba kuyimfuneko. I-Ukwanda i-isondlo izixa-mali kuba abantwana sele kuba kuyimfuneko ngenxa yowiso-mthetho kusetyenziswa engundoqo free imali evunyelweyo kwaye neemali kuba umntwana inzuzo, kuba. wavusa Ngokufanelekileyo, ubuncinane ubambe wenziwe ukwanda kulo nyaka, kwaye adapted. Njengoko ukususela ephakamileyo isondlo izixa-mali kuba abantwana kwi isiseko Kuqala umqathango wama-owenz utshintsho kumgaqo-ubuncinane isondlo Ummiselo (BGBl. Ngowama) Ngoko ke, amazinga kuba ubuncinane ngenxa phantsi ubambe Ka-: ngeendlela ezininzi iimeko, a wembambano ngu lo mba isondlo, ingakumbi emva kokuba wokuqhawula umtshato, kwaye kuphela ngokusemthethweni ukuba ukususela lwahlulelwano kuba abantwana. Ukwaba kwi-inkcukacha nge sihloko, kuya kufuneka zacaciswa ukususela outset, nokuba naliphi na ibango ngenxa Alimony, phambi kokuba iza unnecessary quarrels.
Ukususela bobabini abazali kufuneka anike supplies kuba abantwana babo ke, isondlo, kukho kwalomgaqo-siseko umsebenzi isondlo.
Unozala esabelana umntwana ubomi, zahlangana yakhe Isondlo izibophelelo, kodwa kunye ulungiselelo Ibhodi kwaye lodging, oko kukuthi, ebizwa-Yendalo gcina.
Kwi-kubuyela, omnye umzali kufuneka ahlawule inxalenye igalelo layo njengokuba Imali yesondlo, ngoko ke financially lungiselela.
Kodwa ingabi kuphela abazali bamele ukuhlawula isondlo kuba abantwana babo, ngenxa yokuba amaqabane ubomi partners zinikelwe ukuba yesondlo, ukuba kukho imfuneko. Nangona kunjalo, ingaba kwenzeka okokuba (sele abadala kunye anamandla), abantwana kufuneka ahlawule imali yabo nabasweleyo abazali, ngoko ngokuba Abazali. Uninzi rhoqo le meko kwenzeka kwimeko unonophelo neenkonzo ye-loluntu inkonzo bamatyala. Ngendlela Elandelayo, ungafumana izakhelo umthetho kwi isondlo kwaye enxulumene isondlo obligation.
I-decisive ifekta apha yi determination nokuba ibango ukuba isondlo ingaba yintoni kwi-abantwana kusoloko kunjalo, ukuba abazali ezahlukeneyo okanye musa kuhlala kunye.
Ukongeza kwi-kufuneka bayigcine le enye ixesha, Nokusebenza ngempumelelo isondlo debtor. Ngenxa kuphela abo sele ukutya ingeniso efumanekayo, kanjalo unako ngokuqinisekileyo afford ophilayo. Le njongo, kukho iselwa cacisa imigaqo, ingakumbi kwimeko Minors, Ubuncinane ukuqinisekisa ulondolozo ka-kombane abantwana - lusekelwe-siseko parental uxanduva. Ukuba distinguish oko kukuthi, ngo-siseko, umntwana isondlo phakathi Minors, ngokupheleleyo-unyaka okhethekileyo abantwana. Kwiminyaka emithathu ezayo aselekhulile ukongeza koko, bamele kwi uqeqesho okanye nzulu okanye ingaba unemployed. I-guideline ingafunyanwa kwi-düsseldorf (yakwaspargs semthethweni düsseldorf ithebhule), neemali obuphezulu jonga iinkundla kunye yakho Ithebhule njengokuba ubhekiso incopho kuba determination le isetyenziselwa kufuneka kuba inkxaso ye-abantwana. Uyakwazi ikhompyutha ulondolozo kunye zethu Isondlo mna bala. Kwi-Germany,"indawo yokuhlala imodeli, kukho ikakhulu"xa ke iza isondlo oko kuthetha ukuba umntwana ubomi kunye ngumzali kunye umntwana inkxaso kwi-uhlobo Ifomu Bebhodi kwaye lodging ngu inikiweyo. Omnye umzali esabelana umntwana sele live, ukwenza yayo isondlo izibophelelo ukwimo imali yesondlo. Ngxi iselwa engaziwayo, kwaye kakhulu abancinane ngokufanayo ne-exchange imodeli, apho zahlukane abazali share onke amalungelo nezibophelelo zethu, kwaye umntwana ubomi malunga nama kwi no Imimandla bobabini abazali, kwaye powered. Ungafumana ulwazi oluthe kweyahlukileyo inqaku ku-parity imodeli phantsi"exchange imodeli"- Mali imbuyekezo emva okunokukhethwa kuko okanye wokuqhawula umtshato, imbono ka-spousal inkxaso. Kodwa iinkundla thatha divorced mlingane kunye uxanduva kujike kwi rhafu, ngenjongo ekuboneleleni kuba eyiyeyakhe isondlo.
Ngenxa yoko, kuya kuba zahlukane amaqabane, nzima, unelungelo lokuba Isondlo ukuba enforce, ukuba okwazi ukubonelela kwezabo livelihood.
Kungenjalo ikhangeleka kuba ngoku abantwana abasweleyo ngenxa yabo ubudala, inkathalo.
Apha, uyakwazi ukwahlula yokuphepha de iminyaka emithathu ubudala, umsebenzi isondlo ukwimo inkathalo yesondlo. Ukuze kwalatha ukuba ngaba, kwaye kangangoko apho isondlo ayikwazi kunikwa ukuba ibango kwaphela, ingaba ukucacisa zilandelayo izikhundla. Kubalulekile ukuba ubudlelwane ngendlela ethe ngqo umgca. Ukongeza kwi-isondlo umgaqo-nkqubo wokuqhawula umtshato wemiceli-incopho kwi imiba usapho umthetho. Yintoni zonke waqala ngoko ke oluhle kunye ne kakuhle ezaziwayo,"ebukeka imini ihlabathi", kuphela ngabo rhoqo kwi-imbambano kwaye ukuba bavele phambi yenkundla usapho inkundla. Wokuqhawula umtshato bezinga marriages lokuqala isixhenxe idlulileyo, ngomhla ephezulu, ezifana izitatistiki uphando. Ukongeza kwi-yeemvakalelo zakho sadness kuya kwenziwa kwimeko a wokuqhawula umtshato, ngokuxhomekeka marital ipropati ngexesha umtshato, impahla yexabiso landela ukucacisa, apho rhoqo a wembambano. Kanjalo iindleko a wokuqhawula umtshato kusenokuba etsaliweyo ngokusebenzisa i-non-amicable okunokukhethwa kuko. Rhoqo, abantwana ukusuka marriages ukuba zilungile ngokubhekiselele disputes njengoko custody nololongo amabango phakathi fronts zabazali.
